Jehn, well, the last guy I dated was an audio engineer, so while he spent alot of time at the studio, I spent alot of time teaching or playing, so no, time wasn't an issue for us. We both had busy schedules, but were also able to see eachother quite alot. At least in my case though, music is my career, so potential mates already know that ahead of time. Music is just one aspect of my life though, and I think it's really important to find a nice balance. <smile> Sure, music is very important to me, but so is a healthy relationship. The trick is finding someone who feels the same for whatever they enjoy. Then I think it can work. *laughing* I know, stating the obvious! lol! -it's late... Anyway, night night everyone!... Smiles, Goddess At 01:33 AM 6/22/01 -0400, you wrote: > Anyone else here have conflicts with their significant others >concerning time spent doing music vs time spent with them?? Jehn --- "The only things I really think are important, are love, and eachother. -Then, anything is possible..."